Questions

Questions, Frustrations, Our hearts play the real, the mind pretense. Burns with pain. Relieved with sane Clarity.

Simon Says.
28 Oct 2010

Ignorant and Blind

Hurting people hurt people. Most critics were criticized themselves as children and did not develop the sense of security and healthy identity that can come from positive nurturing. They tend to have a low opinion of themselves and consequently feel best (although often frustrated) when attempting to achieve the unrealistic standards they set for themselves and others. Critics are often motivated by the need to feel better about themselves by putting other people down.

If you read something and get defensive or have an adverse reaction to it. It means something. Good or bad.
Some people are just so blinded by who they are that they think they are alright. Thet just need to e positive and things would go away.

I'm not being happy cos im hiding things, yes, i used to do that, and i am guilty of the above passage. But i've been made aware of it. Ive learned from it.
I am OK.
Dont confuse me. i dont criticise people as much or I am aware when i am criticising someone, that gives me the edge to know what i am doing or saying. But if someone doesnt even know they are criticising others, well, they are blinded by the fact that they think they think they are the best. Little do they know whats comin to them or what's to come.

Does denial have a part to play in this stubborness? this blindness to see that they are so critical about things and people around them.